
Here's Mum and Dad, Nanny and Papa, Granny and Pop pop.
Today it's Dad's 63rd Birthday. He's celebrating it far away from the one's that he loves, His children and grand children, spread across Australia, and here in little ole Tokoroa.
Papa Tinokura Tuau, is his full name, his father named him after his good friend who had no children of his own.
He was born on the island of Mangaia (one of the 15 islands which make up the Cook Islands), and moved back to the main island of Rarotonga when he was 12. He helped his father clear the land of scrub and bush, so that they could lay the foundations of what was to become their home. Moving to New Zealand when he was 17 he came here and lived with his sister in Hastings until he met Mum.... and then the rest they say is history... Along came Mata...
There are many things that I love about him, where does one begin?
I love his gnarled hands, their callouses, arthritic twisted fingers, fingernails that are broken, all of these bear the marks of a man. A man who has taught his children the value of hard work, to take care of his family, to look after and fend for themselves, to build a hangi, to cut wood, to change a tyre, to pack away a tent, to build a fire, to fold wires for a video camera properly.
Hands that are never to tired to help out where they can. I love that about him.
I love his broad shoulders, the strength that he has in them to carry little sleepy heads to bed, to cuddle his children when they are upset, to provide a shoulder to cry on, strong and dependable. I love that about him.
I love his smile - gums and all! and the twinkle in his eyes that tells me it's sincere and from the heart. I love that about him.
I love that whenever we needed him, he was always there, that when we called he would move heaven and earth to come. I love that about him.
I love that he is fiercly passionate about his children and grandchildren. His dream is to see all his children and grandchildren together, he mentions it every time we talk. The cracks in his voice, the silent pauses, the tears he is trying to blink away to hide that he misses them so much. I love that about him.
I love that he has dreams for his children, dreams for them to be happy, in whatever they pursue, and that he (and Mum) are the proudest supporters, number one fans. I love that about him.
I love that he loves us unconditionally, that no matter what we do, no matter where we are, no , matter what we say, he loves us because we are his. I love that about him!
Tino and Vanessa, Maine and Jono, Pui and Koni, Ula and William, Tana, Tissy, Boo, Keke, Skinny, Ladyboss, Jai, Tiona, Numia and Tinokura jnr,
This is our Dad, Papa, Pop pop.
Happy Birthday
With all my heart and all my love
Mata
xox